Against Separatism
edited by Joe Peacott
Introduction
Over the last several years there has been a
resurgence of separatism in the feminist and lesbian/gay movements. Although
many who identify as feminists or gay/lesbian liberationists claim to be interested
in bettering conditions for all people, not just themselves and other women or
homosexual people, they often organize themselves in exclusive groups. Within
broader groups, such as the North American continental anarchist gatherings,
there are often workshops, subgroups, or ÔspacesÕ that exclude people on the
basis of sex, color, or sexual tastes. And these discriminatory practices are
often supported by the some of the people who are being excluded. While we
defend the freedom of people to associate with or avoid whoever they wish, as
long as no coercion is involved, this exclusivist behavior should be seen for
what it is; sexism, racism and homosexism. Members of the Drinking Brigade have
attended three of the anarchist gatherings, and each year this separatist
current in the movement is becoming stronger. In San Francisco, there were a
number of exclusivist workshops and a women-only ÒspaceÓ, workshop after
workshop degenerated in hostile yelling matches between some of the women and
men, and speakouts by some women and homosexual people were used to attempt to
bully people with whom the speakers disagreed. As anarchists and individualists
who see anarchy as entailing the liberation of all people as individuals, not
as members of narrowly defined groups, we oppose this trend toward separatism
and exclusion.
We are publishing this collection of writings in an
attempt to stimulate discussion of this issue. The first article, ÒAnarchists
and the LeftÓ, was written in 1984 for publication in an anarchist magazine,
but was not published as planned. It is included here because it puts the
critique of separatism within the context of a broader critique of the wider
anti-individualist or, as it is called in the article, leftist outlook of many
in the anarchist movement. Support for separatism, like support for nationalism
and reluctance to criticize socialist states despite their abuse of people,
comes out of a group-oriented world view which many anarchists share with the
statist left, but with which we disagree.
ÒFeminism: Disarmed? Indulgent? Introverted?Ó first
appeared in Freedom,
a British anarchist magazine in 1981. Iris Mills is an anarchist who spent over
a year and a half in jail as one of those accused of conspiring to cause
explosions in the ÒPersons UnknownÓ case in England. She was subsequently found
not guilty of the charges. This article is a transcript of MillsÕ presentation
at a debate at LondonÕs Autonomy Centre on September 25, 1981. In it she argues
against feminism and separatism, for, as she stated in the debate, ÒSurely our
concern is to bring people together, not to erect still more barriers...To me
anarchism stands for the individual liberation of each human being.Ó
ÒThe Politics of Identity and Difference:
Gynocentric vs. Polyandrogynist VisionsÓ is an updated version of an essay ÒOn
the Current Schism: Gynocentrism vs. Androgyny,Ó which was published in the
feminist student newspaper Rising Tide in 1986 in Binghamton, NY. Peter Cariani holds that the
basic assumptions of much of the feminist movement are nationalist in their
ideological structure, and that an individualist-androgynist feminist approach
is a more direct route to sex-equality. It is argued that nationalistic,
gynocentric approaches perpetuate and deepen divisions between men and women by
creating strong sex-dependent identities and exclusivistic political
organizations. These divisions result in the restriction of life choices for
both women and men. Rather than organizing along lines of biological sex, an
alternative movement would seek to deconstruct the distinction between man and
woman rather than reconstructing it, freeing both men and women from
stereotypes and socially-enforced norms. The strategy would involve dismantling
all power relations based on biological sex rather than gaining power for
particular groups of people by using the sex distinction.
The letter to the Association of Libertarian
Feminists (ALF) published here as ÒIndividualists against SexismÓ, was written
in August 1989 in response to an article by Joan Kennedy Taylor, ALFÕs acting
National Coordinator, in Association of Libertarian Feminists News #31 in the Summer of
1989. In this article Taylor discussed the possibility of changing ALFÕs name
because of widespread misunderstanding of the word libertarian and confusion
about ALFÕs relationship to the Libertarian Party (LP). (ALF is a group of
libertarians and anarchists which is independent of the LP, although some
members of ALF are members or supporters of the LP). In this letter I argue
that the word feminism is more problematic, that feminism has historically been
associated with statism, sexism, and conventional moral values, and that, just
as anti-sexist anarchists and individualists historically avoided the label
feminist, ALF should drop the word from its name.
ÒLesbian/Gay Liberation or Individual freedom? was
published in the Summer 1984 issue of Instead of A Magazine. It argues that
separatism and anti-heterosexual bias on the part of gay/lesbian liberationists
leads to new forms of bigotry and a new hierarchy made up of homosexual people,
instead of in the direction of sexual freedom for all people and tolerance for
the sexual tastes of others.
We found biologist Ruth HubbardÕs article, ÒThere
is No Natural Human SexualityÓ in the May 1987 issue of The Bi Monthly, the newsletter of the
Boston Bisexual MenÕs Network. We included it here because her argument that
sexual tastes are not inborn or unchanging over time is a powerful argument
against homosexual separatism.
We hope these articles encourage discussion about
the issue of separatism in the anarchist and other social change movements. We
welcome feedback and criticism from readers.
Joe Peacott
Anarchists and the Left
Joe Peacott
Modern political and social views are generally broken
down into the broad categories of right and left, and most people who interest
themselves in social or political ideas identify themselves with one of these
categories or their various sub-categories. The right consists of people who
view themselves as conservatives, republicans, fascists, moral majoritarians,
puritans, racists, KKKers, etc. The left comprises communists, social
democrats, liberals, socialists, populists, progressives, feminists, pacifists,
gay/lesbian liberationists, etc. Because these definitions are so widely
accepted and so often used in political discussion, many anarchists have a
tendency to adopt one of these labels and identify with one of these general
groups.
Although there are some anarchists or libertarians
who identify with the right, most seem to feel they have much more in common
with the traditional left. I think a lot of this has to do with the fact that
many of us who are now anarchists first became involved in social or political
action and ideas through left-identified movements, i.e., anti-war, anti-draft,
anti-racist, feminist, gay/lesbian. And despite the fact that we ex-leftists
now reject the state and political action, many still hold some of the leftist
positions and views which led to their initial radicalization. But in order to
build a new society based on individual freedom and equal freedom for all, the
anarchist movement and anarchist individuals need to break with the left and
leave behind this leftist baggage.
The primary problem with most leftist positions is
that they promote group interests over individual interests and further isolate
people from each other. An example of this is feminism, with which a number of
anarchists are currently infatuated. Feminism historically has embraced
temperance, voting, and conservative sexual practices, as well as equality for
women within the bounds of statist society. Many modern-day feminists support
voting, women government officials, censorship of sexual literature, and social
actions from which men are excluded, i.e. Greenham Common, Seneca, Take Back
the Night marches, as well as equality for women, again within the bounds of
statist society. Yet some anarchists still describe themselves as feminists.
The problem with feminist philosophy, as with the
philosophies of lesbian/gay liberation, black nationalism, and support for
nationalist movements in other parts of the world, is that they define the
issues in the context of groups and group interests. For instance, rape and
murder of women is defined as a special class of violence, violence against
women, not simply violence against an innocent person. Although this may not
seem to be more than a minor semantics difference, this method of describing
the problem leads to specific social and political actions. It leads to the
formation of groups such as Women Against Violence Against Women, women-only
Take Back the Night Marches (men are specifically not invited), and the current
pro-censorship anti-pornography movement. And all of these efforts lead to a
further division between men and women. This may be a desirable and consistent
goal for feminists, but it has nothing in common with anarchy.
We live in a violent society. Women and men are
both subject to random, unprovoked violence by others and itÕs also true that more
women than men are subject to this violence, and far more women than men are
raped. But what is gained by organizing against violence against women instead
of violence against all innocent people? Nothing but more polarization between
the sexes. Most men oppose violence against both women and men, as do most
women. The anti-violence, anti-rape movement, if framed in terms of the
inviolability of all individuals and their right to defend themselves against
any coercion and violence by any means necessary, could promote individual
freedom much more effectively than women-only anti-violence marches ever will.
After all there are a lot of men who are afraid to walk the streets alone at
night, as well. Reaching out to these people in this way would broaden the
anti-violence movement, and hopefully also build support for other efforts to
increase individual freedom and autonomy.
Besides leading to separatism and
further isolating people from each other, leftist positions supported by some
anarchists promote continuing oppression for many people. This is clearest in
leftist/anarchist support for national liberation movements. Many anarchists
are hesitant to criticize the murderous actions of the PLO, IRA, INLA, Red
Brigades, etc., while they are more than willing to denounce the terror
committed by the zionists, British imperialists, or German authoritarians. But
nationalist movements, once in power, have been anything but libertarian. The
Vietnamese statists drive out the ethnic Chinese, the Sandinistas censor La Prensa and institute a military
draft, and the Khmer Rouge are butchers. As the saying goes, the enemy of my
enemy is not necessarily my friend. Anarchists should have learned this lesson
from the experience of the Russian revolution, when anarchists from around the
world went to Russia to support the revolution and were killed or deported for
their trouble.
Certainly, foreign imperialism is often more brutal
and murderous than local statists that replace it, but it is certainly not
anarchistic to support one group over the other. I donÕt think that the Irish
nationalists will be any more tolerant of individual rights, anarchists,
abortion rights, or lesbian/gay sex after they seize power than the bigots who
currently rule Ulster. And the nationalistsÕ current practice of bombing pubs
where soldiers hang out, even though this results in the murder of innocents,
should not endear them to anarchists.
Nationalism, like feminism, is based on the primacy
of groups over individuals. Nationalists believe that ÒnationsÓ oppress other
ÒnationsÓ. Anarchists, on the other hand, contend that some people oppress
other people. That is why we should be supporting the liberation of people, not
the liberation of nations, as national liberation always means the liberation
of local tyrants from the interference of foreign tyrants, not the liberation
of individuals from authority of any sort.
The world is an oppressive and brutal place for
most people. Some people, however, because of some physical characteristic or
behavior, are oppressed in different or more vicious ways than others. Black
people in the U.S. are denied access to jobs, entertainment facilities,
housing, etc., because of their skin color much more often than white people;
women are more often subject to violence and rape than men; gay men and
lesbians are more likely to be fired from their jobs because of their sexual
practices than are straight people. Despite this general trend, however, all of
the specific victims of these oppressive practices are individuals. And we
should fight bigotry and rape because it injures individual people, not because
it hurts black people, or female people, or homosexual people, or any other
specific group. To borrow a phrase from the left, an injury to one is an injury
to all. I am a man, IÕm gay, and my skin is white. But none of these
characteristics defines me or my social views. Only by emphasizing the fact
that the differences between any two individuals are more profound (and
interesting) than the differences between groups, and by remembering that the
similarities between individuals are more important than any of the
differences, will we be able to build a world of equal freedom for all.
Building movements around shared superficial
characteristics such as skin color, sex organs, or sexual tastes will only lead
to more divisions between us, with a subsequent reduction of freedom for us
all. Straight white women and gay black men can both oppose rape, fight U.S.
intervention around the world, support abortion rights, and fight censorship.
We need to assert our individuality and emphasize what makes us unique, while
at the same time associating with other autonomous individuals to further our
common desires and goals. Movements centered around our shared opposition to
the state and authority, and any intervention in our lives, will bring about
more libertarian results than any exclusive special-interest campaign will ever
result in.
Feminism: Disarmed? Indulgent? Introverted?
Iris Mills
It has become normal for people in these debates to
begin by criticizing the title of the debate - and I wonÕt be the first to
break this tradition.
What I take exception to in the title is the word
ÔdisarmedÕ because I donÕt believe feminism was ever armed in the first place.
It always was, is now, and will remain, Ôunarmed.Õ The demands of the womenÕs
movement have never had revolutionary implications; they have never posed
threats to either the state or capitalist society and therefore it is a mistake
to think of it as a once revolutionary force now diluted by reformism.
It is precisely because of the womenÕs movement
rationale itself that it could never be revolutionary. Its professed aim has
been to put women on an equal footing with men, to explain oppression in terms
of sex instead of class. This analysis was wrong on both counts. By
presupposing that men, as a sex, call all the shots and are more privileged in
all respects, feminists risk losing sight of the fact that men in this society
are themselves subject to discrimination and oppression based on class. The
desire to be equal to men seems ridiculous to me, for who would want to be
equal to slaves?
Of course many feminists recognize this and try to
get round it by claiming that womenÕs demands, if implemented, would
revolutionize society. They say that once a deep and thorough-going realignment
of the sexes takes place, once the psychological barriers which divide men from
women are removed, society in its present form would be radically altered.
Patriarchy, so the argument runs, is the source of oppression, preceding the
development of classes and capitalism; and the consequence of its demise would
be a free and equal society.
The second mistake is to treat ÔfreedomÕ as
quantitative. Human freedom is not divisible, degrees of oppression are not
real criteria with which to analyze society. It is immaterial whether
patriarchy preceded class development. Oppression is based on class and I
believe that the men and women of one class must unite and fight the men and
women of the ruling class. To say, as Astrid Proll did, that she knew she could
get justice because the judge hearing her case was a woman, is dangerous. It is
dangerous because it promotes a myth - the myth of sisterhood. As if all women,
despite their class, have something fundamentally in common, because they share
the same kind of sex organs.
The myth of sisterhood works against
revolutionaries in two ways. It separates men from women. You all know of
Ôwomen onlyÕ meetings. Surely our concern is to bring people together not to
erect still more barriers. The Ôwoman is superiorÕ syndrome is not something I
am exaggerating for tonight - it is plainly visible in Spare Rib among the
contributors who state that they hate their male children - at six months old!
ItÕs horrendous. The worst aspect of the Ômyth of sisterhoodÕ is that it leads
directly to womenÕs issues alone and undermines the solidarity so important to
a revolutionary movement and neglects a class analysis. Thus womenÕs demands
have been channeled into projects like the First WomenÕs National Bank of New
York, which allows men to have accounts but not to become shareholders. The
logic behind this seems to be that self-managed oppression and exploitation is
better. It also indicates the identification of womenÕs rights with women
careerists and professionals. There is no demand for revolution, just a demand
that within the framework of this economic and social system women get a fair
deal. Big deal!
Of course it is true that within the womenÕs
movement there are those women who call themselves revolutionaries, whose
rationale appears to be that they recognize that women will never achieve
anything other than superficial equality unless society undergoes a
revolutionary change. They say however that they prefer to work with women only,
because they feel dominated among men. I can understand that to a point but no
problem was ever solved by ignoring it. If some men are domineering toward
women they should be confronted by the fact - itÕs no use going away and
hoping that in your absence the man or men in question will come to their
senses. Anyway some women feel dominated by other women - what do they do then?
Form a sub-group of submissive women only?
Some women use the ÔdegreesÕ of oppression argument
as an explanation for their work in the womenÕs movement. The point of the
argument being that you should work with the most oppressed. For example Kate
Millet says that in the United States white women are more oppressed than black
males. IÕm not sure how points are allocated but I suppose that a black working
class unmarried mother whoÕs a lesbian must get the highest score.
Demands for free abortion, better day care
facilities and so on are important only in so far as they make life today that
much easier - in much the same way as demands for prison reform in the way
of more association, longer visits and the like, makes prison life a little
easier. But these reforms should be left to the liberals; they donÕt come to
grips with the basic problem in society. For women who feel themselves to be
revolutionaries it is more important that they see past these reforms and
concern themselves with more fundamental issues. When someone says ÔIÕm an
anarchist-feministÕ to me thatÕs like saying ÔIÕm a vegetarian who doesnÕt eat
meat.Õ To me anarchism stands for the individual liberation of each human
being.
For the reasons IÕve given I donÕt believe feminism
was ever ÔarmedÕ in the sense that it ever provided a revolutionary challenge
to the state. But is it also ÔintrovertedÕ and ÔindulgentÕ? Briefly then:
A glance at some of the feminist fiction around is,
I think, a fair indication of the concerns of the womenÕs movement. Pick, say,
Marge PiercyÕs books, Woman on the Edge
of Time and Vida. It seems odd
that feminists who are allegedly concerned with destroying the current sexual
stereotypes are setting up new ones, and have books full of ÔbeautifulÕ people.
PiercyÕs heroines are all very physically attractive to men. Moreover the men
themselves conform to the same old model: handsome, strong and athletic. Indeed
in Vida it is the slightly feminine
man who betrays the heroine.
Also, for some ridiculous reason, cats play an
important role - they supposedly represent the female image. Is that supposed
to be soft and fluffy? While dogs are despised, the reason for which I havenÕt
yet grasped, but apparently dogs are more masculine. I think that this type of
fiction which reflects feminist issues shows them to be introverted and
indulgent in the same way as conferences on orgasm are. By all means talk about
these things with your friends, male and female - or with strangers if you
will. But donÕt try to give them a political expression or use them as examples
of political oppression of women by men.
Finally, I want to acknowledge some benefit from
the feminist movement - simply that it has done something to change the nature
of relationships between men and women; with developments in technology that
give us effective contraception, for example, relationships were bound to
evolve. But anarchists have to go further - it is not possible to have
ÔfreeÕ relationships in an unfree society. We can work towards it, true, but we
can never obtain it until we have a free society in which to develop properly.
I maintain that human beings and human relationships cannot be free until the
oppression of the state and capital is destroyed and a classless society is
created. Nothing less will do.
Feminist Politics and Abuse
Lisa Orlando
Laura HathawayÕs excellent letter on child abuse
and lesbian battering exemplifies the direction I think this discussion needs
to take. Unlike Hathaway, I was physically abused by my mother. And although,
like Hathaway, I had many childhood encounters with the ÔhelpersÕ, I also went
through the juvenile court system, which considered me ÒincorrigibleÓ because I
stood up against my motherÕs abuse, refused ever to believe that I deserved it,
and ran away every chance I got. My very early awareness that I was unjustly
treated merely because of my status as a child has been the root of my politics
and my very personal hatred of oppression in any form. In fact, my mother is
herself partially responsible for my precocious political analysis of the
situation: she always said ÒyouÕre my slave until you turn 18.Ó
I have also been attacked - and almost killed
- by a woman lover. Whenever I hear descriptions of women as Òessentially
nurturant, nonviolent, etc.,Ó I feel nauseous and infuriated. Early in my
involvement with radical feminism I realized that womenÕs violence was not
taken seriously - my anger at my mother was as delegimated as it had been
by the Òchild shrinkers.Ó Women I was told, were only violent because they were
oppressed, so you couldnÕt blame them. Men were violent either by nature or
privilege, so they had no convenient excuses. IÕm sick of all this double-talk.
Both men and women, as adults, are oppressors of children. Any feminism which
wants to base its politics on a romanticization of the mother/daughter bond
furthers the oppression of children and silences those of us - male and female
- who were and are abused by our mothers. Ò
From Gay Community News, Mar 24, 1984
The Politics of Identity and Difference:
Gynocentrist vs. Polyandrogynist Visions
Peter Cariani
Within feminism(1), there has always been a covert
tension between those who advocated more power for women as a class
(gynocentrism) and those who advocated the abolition of social roles based upon
biological sex (polyandrogyny). These two strategies for social transformation
form two poles of a contemporary feminist spectrum. Each defines sex-based
oppression (patriarchy, sexism) in its own way; each articulates a distinct
feminist vision and pathway for liberation.
The gynocentrist approach is essentially a
nationalist strategy. Women and men form distinct and competing bio-social
classes (or ÒnationsÓ); here, the nature of the oppression is the domination of
one bio-social class (men) over another (women), and the nature of liberation
necessarily involves a struggle for power between gender classes.
The polyandrogynist approach(2) rejects the notion
of ideal, homogeneous classes, instead focusing on the actions of
heterogeneous, concrete individuals in specific situations. Where gynocentrists
see the struggle between male power and female power, polyandrogynists see the
struggle between those men and women who support sex-based social norms and
those men and women who seek to dissolve them completely. Instead of acquiring
normative powers for a particular bio-social class, polyandrogynists seek to
eliminate such powers in order to allow individuals of either sex to determine
for themselves what kind of life they want to lead, freed of bio-social role
expectations.
Profound differences between the gynocentrist and
the polyandrogynist worldviews underlie many of the debates over sexuality and
sexual freedom, over the proper relation between individual choices and social
norms, over the role of political movements in shaping individual
identities(3). What should be the relation of individuals to collectivities? Is
the purpose of feminism to liberate women as a bio-social class or is it to
free all individuals from the fetters of imposed sex roles? Should feminism
construct alternative ÒfeminineÓ and ÒmasculineÓ identities or should it
subvert all such essentialist constructions? And what should be the role of men
in feminist movements? Should they be excluded, sent off to form their own
groups, should they be allowed in as equals, or should the whole question be
put aside in favor of more pressing issues? Analogous questions can be asked
with respect to other forms of oppression (e.g. racism, nationalism, repression
of unsanctioned sexualities) and their associated strategies for liberation.
These kinds of questions take us to the core of what politics is about.
Deconstruct and reconstruct: political
categories & personal experience
Ultimately the answers depend upon the basic
categories of our political thought, because as moral, political beings we
experience and judge the world through these categories. The political categories
we construct determine what we notice as we move through the world, which
distinctions we make, to what aspects of the world we attribute good and evil.
Each of us constructs our own categories to make meaning out of an otherwise
meaningless confusion; the categories we construct are partially determined by
our own histories, our current experiences and desires, as well as the
categories of those around us as communicated through language. Individually
and as political communities we must choose our categories very carefully: they
form who we are as moral-political beings. If we strongly believe that men are
inherently domineering and women are inherently nurturing, we will go about the
world making these sex-based assumptions about the people we encounter, to the
extent that we may not take note of the existence of domineering women or
non-domineering men. When a man commits a heinous crime, there is an a strong
tendency to attribute it to his maleness, to put it under the rubric Òmale
violence,Ó but when members of other groups (women, racial & sexual
minorities) commit similarly violent acts, we, as progressives, are properly
careful not to attribute the crime to the criminalÕs group membership; other,
more specific explanations must be sought for why that individual did what s/he
did. When we fail to note the exceptions and the resulting incongruities
between our experiences and expectations, we stay stuck in our own closed world
of self-justifying beliefs. We cease to learn from our experiences, we stop
growing. In radical political cultures, especially in more militant ones, these
basic political categories can become highly charged with moral contents and
strongly reinforced, making it very difficult to break out of thinking in terms
of politically correct stereotypes. And even when one has succeeded in mentally
deconstructing the received categories, our political cultures, with their
endless moral posturing and instant condemnation, make it difficult to publicly
challenge accepted moral truths. To be sure, some political communities are
worse than others in this respect, but often these social and mental
constraints persist in more subtle forms in less militant circles. Wherever we
are, we need to constantly question our operating assumptions, and to discard
those assumptions which no longer agree with our lived experiences.
Ideal classes and concrete individuals
As radicals, most of us have inherited either
directly or indirectly most of our ways of thinking and acting from the marxist
tradition. The marxist tradition has in effect handed us ideal, platonic
classes by way of the hegelian dialectic, with all of their terrible
totalitarian, hierarchical, life-negating ramifications. In effect, the ideal
political categories of marxism prevent us from seeing the concrete individuals
in our lives; instead we see the classes of which each individual is but a
representative. As a consequence, we often treat the people we first encounter
in everyday life, not as themselves - as morally autonomous individuals
with their own particular histories - but as abstract class tokens with
one collective history. Politically-correct leftist political culture typically
pigeon-holes people into economic classes, gender classes, racial classes, and
sexuality classes. Within militant gynocentric-feminist circles it matters a
great deal whether the speaker is male or female, and to a lesser extent
whether s/he is gay, straight, or bisexual. The person speaking in a political
meeting is no longer speaking for him/herself, but for all the political
categories s/he represents. Here there is often a hierarchy of speakers paralleling
a hierarchy of oppressions--those who can claim to be most oppressed by virtue
of their class membership have the most moral clout, while those without such
stature can be readily dismissed on the basis of their class origins: as
objective oppressors, tacit sympathizers, or naive onlookers. Every argument is
thereby subtly reduced to an ad hominem one, dependent upon the class position
of the speaker. In many movements for social change, ideologically-based
assumptions of ideal classes greatly reinforce and amplify these destructive
interpersonal dynamics. In order to create liberator alternatives to what have
become traditional assumptions of radical politics, we must take a good look at
the basic structure of our political thinking. We need to begin to make such a
re-evaluation in feminism.
Gynocentric feminism: the construction of
difference
Perhaps the majority of the feminist movement today
sees itself as championing the interests of women in a world where gender
issues are decided in the competition between the interests of men and those of
women. For these feminists, it makes sense to organize the movement for
sex-equality as a movement of women as a group struggling for their own
rights(4). This woman-centered, or gynocentric feminism embodies a nationalist,
corporativist approach to the problem of sexism in society. In its most
orthodox, extreme versions, men and women constitute different competing
classes engaged in a Manichean war of domination(5). In its less extreme
versions, gynocentrism simply construes feminism as concern with ÒwomenÕs
issuesÓ and ÒwomenÕs rights,Ó leaving the boundaries of the political struggle
more open-ended and less rigidly defined.
Essentialism: biological, spiritual, and psychological. Even in
its milder forms the gynocentric worldview depends upon essential, relatively
immutable differences between the sexes. Typically, women are believed to be
more nurturing and emotionally supportive, while men are thought to be more
analytical, domineering, and violent. Some gynocentrists believe this is a
consequence of womenÕs biological reproductive role and/or the construction of
their bodies(6) (biological essentialism). Others believe that women are
spiritually more connected to the earth(7) (spiritual essentialism) or that
womenÕs Òways of knowingÓ are different from menÕs(8) (epistemological
essentialism). More developmentally oriented gynocentrists believe that sex- differentiated
socialization is so complete and pervasive throughout society that men and
women are inevitably psychologically constituted differently as ÒmasculineÓ and
ÒfeminineÓ beings(9) (psychological essentialism).
Essentialism forms the metaphysical underpinnings
of both gynocentrist feminism and the traditional sex role hierarchy. If women
and men are not individually different in important ways, and if neither men
nor women can change their basic psychological make-up, then they do form
separate classes with separate interests and these interests may come into
conflict. If these differences between individual men and women were no longer
regarded as important or if more important differences exist within each
sex-class than between them (e.g. political, cultural, religious, sexual
orientation), then the entire rationale of the gynocentrist movement is
undermined.
Whatever their origins, inherently different (and
incompatible) desires and orientations of men and women lead to the necessity
for a separate movement to advance the interests of women (since the interests
of men as a group are already presumably represented in the current political
and economic structures).
Separatism. Essentialism leads to separatism by providing the
basic distinction on which separatism rests, by defining what counts as ÒoneÕs
own kind.Ó In addition to essentialism, separatism also involves a strong
preference for ÒoneÕs own kind.Ó Those who see large relatively immutable
differences between the sexes, and who prefer their own sex are drawn to
separatism in various degrees. At its most extreme this can mean living in a
sex-exclusive environment where one need never come in contact with the other
sex. It can mean simply choosing to associate only with oneÕs own sex in oneÕs
personal life (as in social or political groups). It can mean participating in
groups which exclude on the basis of sex or silently tolerating sexist
practices by oneÕs political associates. Similarly, there are many different
motivations for separatism: intense hatred of the other sex because of past
negative experiences or intense love of oneÕs own sex because of past positive
experiences.
Separatists of various stripes comprise a
significant subculture within the feminist movement, with a considerable array
of women-only consciousness-raising and study groups, cafes, bookstores,
schools for self-defense and self-help, art galleries, music festivals and
health collectives. In comparison there exist few if any contemporary
progressive circles which exclude women(10).
Nationalism. Essentialism and separatism form the basis for
nationalism. Nationalism in its broadest sense is the belief that those groups
of people who have similar innate characteristics (such as nationality, race,
sex, native language, economic class, parent religion) should band together to
form power blocs to advance their group interests. Essentialism gives
nationalism its metaphysics; separatism gives nationalism its emotional basis
for Òpreferring oneÕs own kindÓ over others who are different.
The nationalist approach is ÒgroupistÓ: one is born
either inside or outside the group, one is given an identity as a member of the
group, group oppressions are called forth to claim moral recognition, the
interests of oneÕs own kind always supersede those of other peoples. Here there
are no individuals, only members of groups. Each person is necessarily allied
with and identified as belonging to one group or another: men are assumed to
male-identified and therefore allied with patriarchy, women are assumed to be
female-identified and allied through Òsisterhood.Ó
Many types of nationalism are possible; they can be
based on any distinction that can be represented as innate and morally
compelling: country of origin (patriotisms of all sorts); tribal, linguistic,
or ethnic group (e.g. zionism, palestinian nationalism, pan-germanic
nationalism); race (white supremacist, pan-Africanize); religion (religious
crusades of all sorts); biological sex (male chauvinism/patriarchy, gynocentric
feminism) or economic class (aristocratic chauvinism, proletarian
nationalism)(11).
Nationalisms create other oppressions by setting up
categories for defining people and treating them according to their national
category, rather than what theyÕve said or done or experienced. If the
discrimination is pervasive and has deep social effects, then these categories
come to be internalized by their victims. People develop primary identities
which depend upon the categories of the oppressing system. The oppressive
system of social roles and expectations never lets its victims forget who they
are and how they must act, as women and men; as blacks and whites; as christians,
jews and muslims; as upper, middle, and working class people.
Organizing along nationalist lines utilizes these
previously internalized identities and strengthens them. The nationalist
strategy thereby capitalizes on oppressive distinctions and norms that are
already in place, creating ready-made categories for resistance and instant
solidarity. Very rapidly nationalist movements can tap into deep wells of
alienation, resentment, and anger. Where people felt powerless and alone, they
suddenly feel empowered and part of movement. Where oneÕs identity and
self-worth were in question, now there is a movement to forge a common identity
and history.
There is no question that nationalist-type
movements can be extremely uplifting and personally empowering. However, there
are deep problems which surface in the long run, after initial victories are won,
and once the movement gains some power.
Double standards. By so sharply separating those of oneÕs own
group from everyone else, nationalism creates double standards of behavior.
These double standards arise from parochial habits of mind which give the
benefit of the doubt to members of oneÕs own group and devalue the intentions
of those outside the group. Those who are officially recognized as oppressed
are allowed to do things that would otherwise be seen as oppressive(12). We
readily see the sexist implications of conscious policies of sex-based
exclusion when traditional menÕs clubs prohibit women members, but rarely is
the reverse situation criticized. Yet both policies rest upon sexist
assumptions, that the worth of a potential member is to be measured according
to his/her sex. While oppressive behavior by those who have been victims of
past oppressions may be understandable, it should not be condoned. Previous
oppression cannot serve as a justification or rationalization for oppressive
acts.
Perpetuation of oppression. Perhaps the worst danger of
nationalist strategies is that they do not eradicate the oppressive distinction
on which the oppression is built. In the process of organizing along
nationalist lines, it is necessary to create a strong group identity (Òclass
consciousnessÓ), and a strong sense of the Other. Gynocentrists encourage
identification as women, lesbian separatists encourage identification as
lesbians, black nationalists encourage identification as blacks, and the list
goes on. Rather than dissolving the oppressive habit of sex-based stereotyping,
the gynocentric program deepens sex-based identities and magnifies sex-based
distinctions.
Paradoxically, nationalism sets up an incentive for
perpetuating the oppression on which it derives its support, since its
political base lies in oppression-generated national identities. Once the
oppression is sufficiently ameliorated or eliminated entirely, then the
movement becomes passŽ. Leaders of nationalist movements acquire a built-in
interest in generating confrontations in order to renew group solidarity. Such
inter-group struggle often masks intra-group power differentials(13). After
power has been attained by the movement many believers are surprised to find
that little actually changes in the basic power relations, except that now
their leaders are members of their group rather than of a different one (e.g.
female bosses instead of male ones).
Androgynist feminism: the amplification of
autonomy
Androgynist feminism is an alternative to the
nationalist, gynocentrist mode of political struggle. Androgynist feminists
want to bring about a situation in which biological sex becomes increasingly
less relevant as a social distinction(14). Women will gain equality only when
the social categories of man and woman are finally stripped of their meaning,
when it becomes largely irrelevant for the selection of life choices, when
ÒmasculineÓ and ÒfeminineÓ traits become disconnected from biological sex. Both
sexes will thereby gain choices that were not available to them before. Women
will be freed to assume social roles traditionally restricted to men (e.g.
having careers, developing their artistic and intellectual talents, assuming
positions of public responsibility, organizing economic enterprises) as well as
their traditional choices. Men will be freed to assume social roles
traditionally restricted to women (e.g. raising children, coordinating life in
the home, working with the poor and disadvantaged, teaching, nursing, pursuing
their own emotional development)(15). Rather than the gynocentric trajectory of
separation and perpetual division, social roles will be more highly integrated,
and less sex-segregated once the social, economic, and psychological barriers
come down.
This vision is no less radical than its nationalist
counterpart; it involves no less struggle around issues of power and economic
gain (freedom has both a political and material basis), but the terrain on
which it is fought is fundamentally different from that of gynocentrism. Rather
than a struggle between innately different biosocial groups, the struggle is
between those who desire the freedom to determine their own life choices and
those who would impose choice- denying social norms in the name of the
collective. Rather than a parochial struggle between various pressure groups
each representing their Òown peopleÓ, the androgynist approach advocates
universal freedoms to be extended to all people as potentially autonomous
individuals.
To androgynist feminists it makes more sense to organize
according to a shared vision of the future (patriarchy vs. sex-equality) rather
than according to the categories of past oppressions (men vs. women)(16).
Reconstructing the categories of the previous oppression and creating a
woman-centered identity moves profoundly in the wrong direction--destroying
choices available to women by advancing new ideologically determined norms,
rather than expanding real life-choices(17).
In many ways the debate parallels that between the
marxists and the anarchists a century ago over the role of hierarchy and
centralized power within the revolutionary movement. The marxists said yes we
need centralized authority structures, but theyÕll disappear after the
revolution; the gynocentrists say we need separation and woman-identified power
for a while until women are equal, then we will dismantle the structure. The
matriarchical order that some gynocentrists fantasize about is the sex-role
equivalent to the dictatorship of the proletariat; were they to attain power,
the results would be similar: more oppressions, more hierarchies of power
legitimated by past oppressions.
Biology should not be destiny. In contrast to gynocentric
feminism, the basic assumption of androgynist feminism is that the social role
differences between the sexes have little or no basis in biological
differences;(18) they are social constructions which can be changed by
concerted effort. Women and men are now on the whole socialized differently,
but there do exist dominant women and submissive men. The problem needs to be
recast in terms of how do we go about dismantling all power-based
relationships, regardless of the sex of the dominant partner. For the most
part, this strategy will benefit women, because most women in contemporary
society tend to have less power in relationships. It will also benefit those
men who are in similar situations. Dismantling of power structures empowers
relatively powerless women and men, while taking power away from relatively
powerful men and women. On a larger social scale, this strategy involves
dismantling hierarchies of power in the workplace, in the political arena, in
all the larger institutions of social life. Since women currently tend to be
towards the bottom of hierarchies of power, a general democratization of power
will for the most part benefit them(19).
Means and ends. As women and men in feminist organizations,
we should seek to construct the social relations which mirror the kind of
integrated, sex-equal society which we want to bring about. This will take
honest, concerted efforts by both men and women to communicate and to change
the ways in which we interact. We will necessarily have to find creative ways
to empower and encourage those who have been put down in the past, and it will
be a long, hard struggle.
If we take Emma GoldmanÕs insistence on the
consistency between means and ends, there should be no double standards in our
organizations: if we do not want ourselves excluded from organizations on the
basis of biology, we should not discriminate on that basis. This is not to say
that groups which happen to be all-female or all-male are inherently bad, or
that mixed groups are always necessarily better (It is the nationalists who
always judge groups by the composition of their membership). It just says as matters
of policy we should include/exclude people by their actions or chosen beliefs,
not by accidents of birth. There may be some circumstances in which single sex
groups may be necessary, but we should not quickly jump to exclusionary
policies for all sex role issues before examining possible non- or less
exclusionary alternatives(20). Difficulties for some group members in dealing
with those of different sex, race, class, or sexuality should be seen as
attitudes to be overcome by everyone involved, not as situations to be
rationalized away or avoided by the group through blanket exclusions. If we
cannot construct sex-equality in our own mixed sex organizations, how can we
hope to do it on a society-wide scale? Clearly this is the challenge we must
face if we seek to change society at large.
Freedom to define oneself: the construction
of identity
If we are to believe seriously in the possibility
of fundamental change, then we must build into our movements for social change
those social relations which we seek to implement in the future society. The
purpose of remembering the past should be to anticipate the future rather than
to wallow in past oppressions. Gynocentrist feminism is determinist, its basic
categories locked into the injustices of the past; androgynist feminism is
constructivist, mindful of history but always oriented towards future
liberation.
The politics of making biology irrelevant to
destiny is a politics of choice, a struggle for freedom. If we act always to
expand choice for more people; we will foster self-development, self-direction,
and personal autonomy. Far from being a reformist program, expanding
significant life-choices for most of the society will necessarily entail
radical political, economic, and psychological changes. Freedom has a material
basis (if you donÕt have money, you donÕt have economic alternatives), a
political basis (if you donÕt have political power, all of your alternatives
are subject to decisions by others), and a psychological basis (if you donÕt
have a sense of who you are and what you want, you canÕt effectively exercise
decision-making autonomy). Women will only develop the means to exercise their
autonomy fully if they are given real life-choices they themselves make as
individuals, not if they are presented with a prefabricated model of
womanhood(21).
Gynocentric feminism denies this choice on a very
fundamental level, that of personal identity. Gynocentric feminism asserts that
oneÕs identity is fixed by oneÕs biological sex, and that one has no role in
constructing the core of oneÕs identity. In contrast, androgynous, role-choice
feminism asserts that both women and men have some (albeit limited) choice,
that they are in some part responsible for the situation they find themselves
in and that they have some (albeit limited) means of changing it. Power
relationships are relationships between (at least) two complementary roles:
those of domination and those of submission, and the relationship breaks down
once either party ceases to play the appropriate role. Each of us participates
in many different types of relationships involving power, and consequently most
people have mixed roles: dominant in some relations, neutral in others,
submissive in still others. Both have the option to leave or restructure
submissive roles or to reject domination in favor of equality.
Androgynist, role-choice feminism undermines
mystical, innatist identity formations by asserting that we construct our
selves. Here the important sources of solidarity are the values which we have
chosen for ourselves which we share in common with other people, not those
values imposed upon us by traditional social roles or by Òmovement identities.Ó
We find others like ourselves, rather than molding ourselves in othersÕ images.
This process of self-construction determines who we are and how we experience
the world around us.
Should political movements consciously construct
personal identities of their members? Should Òmovement identitiesÓ be
reinforced and encouraged? Ultimately the answer to this question lies in the
relative values placed on group formation and cohesion vs. the autonomy of the
freely associating, self-constructing individual. Nationalist political
strategies depend completely upon the construction of a common, national
identity, a collective consciousness. Individualists can only see such a
political construction of individual identity as a loss of self-determination
and a diminution of individual consciousness. We well know the terrible
effectiveness with which totalitarian, identity-manipulating political
strategies mobilize to take power. We have yet to see an radical, cooperative,
individualist alternative which could self- organize on a similar scale to
diffuse power and to amplify freedom, but such alternatives are surely possible
and remain to be fully developed and articulated(22).
Postscript: men and feminism
This article has been difficult to write for many
reasons. ItÕs very hard to express criticisms knowing the kind of vilification
which will be provoked. I feel as many others who have been marginalized by
feminist orthodoxy, but without even the saving grace of being female or
lesbian or a member of some other widely recognized oppressed group. No doubt
many gynocentrists will immediately dismiss the perspective simply because I am
male and therefore in their eyes have no standing to comment on feminist
issues, let alone to criticize their assumptions.
Even those of us who have been sympathetic to
feminist ideals all of our lives and have been active for many years find it difficult
to feel at home in the movement, to be accepted. Most feminist women have a
deeply ambivalent attitudes towards participation by men(23). A small but
significant number of feminist activists hate men in general; some refuse to
talk with men at all, even those who are feminists(24). Most of the activist
groups which deal with gender issues are women-only, so many of the discussions
around these issues are carried out in political circles closed to us(25).
Often, we are told to start our own men-only groups, but to many of us this is
as much an anathema as women-only ones. In addition, some of us do not identify
as men, as inconceivable as that might be to those with strong
gender-identifications. The insistence by some women separatists that men should
form their own groups or caucuses is an external imposition of an unwanted
identity(26).
During the debate around the Dworkin-McKinnon
pornography ordinance I did some work with Cambridge Feminist Anti-Censorship
Taskforce (FACT), which was at the time exclusively women. To my extreme
dismay, several months after the referendum, FACT held a panel discussion of
the lessons learned in the battle, and excluded men, even those who had worked
on the campaign, from attending. Ironically, much of FACTÕs core membership was
composed of S/M lesbians, who have also been marginalized and excluded from
much of feminism(27). Recently I did phone tree work (in opposition to the
Operation Rescue blockades of abortion clinics) for a pro-choice group, only
later to discover that their meetings are closed to men. In these situations,
one cannot help but feel used. This is exactly the sort of sexist
marginalization that many feminists correctly criticized some New Left
organizations for practicing. Now, tragically, feminist groups engage in the
same patterns, and rationalize it in the same ways: we have other more pressing
issues to deal with.
All the double standards and standard
rationalizations notwithstanding, it is difficult to see these exclusions as
motivated by anything but a deeply sexist way of seeing the world. Simply put,
a man, whatever his persona, his political beliefs, his intentions, is excluded
because of innate characteristics he cannot change. No person is perfect, but
each person has some capacity to learn from mistakes and to change the way s/he
behaves. Yes, all people should have the absolute and inviolable right to
associate with whomever they please, but the rest of us do not have to morally
approve of the basis of the association. In my mind, exclusions based upon
biological sex are as deeply reprehensible as those based on race, or on any
other accident of birth.
In political meetings, especially those with a high
proportion of separatists, I have often heard very negative generalizations
being made about all men, and almost never are these generalizations
challenged. The solution here is not to suppress these grievances, because in
many cases there are genuine, specific problems which need to be addressed. The
task here is to get those who have complaints about the behavior of some
individual or group to be as specific as possible about the behavior which
needs changing, and to educate those whose behavior is offensive. Too often
these issues are discussed in separate sex-segregated groups, making it impossible
for men, who are usually the objects of criticism, to hear, respond and learn
from their critics. How else are behaviors to be changed, if not by honest
communication? I have heard women feminists say that they donÕt want to teach
men how to behave (Òwomen have been taking care of men all their livesÓ), and
then in the next breath complain about unintended behaviors which they found
offensive. Rather than focusing on the gender of the person, it is much more
important to concentrate on the behavior: what aspects make it offensive, what
assumptions lie underneath it? Standards of mutual respect and proper conduct
within a community are thereby made explicit and applied to all members,
whoever they are, male or female.
We also need to be more careful with our language.
Much of the language used by contemporary feminist activists betrays some very
crude and sexist generalizations (as in the construction Òmale violenceÓ). And
this comes from within a movement which championed the critical analysis of language.
Imagine for a moment the reactions to constructions such as Òblack violenceÓ or
Òhomosexual violence.Ó Immediately we see the racist and anti-gay implications
of these conflations, and many will be quick to challenge the speaker, whoever
s/he is, but when Òmale violenceÓ is used in a feminist context, there is too
often only silent acquiescence(28).
Out of these and other experiences, I have resolved
not to participate in any movement which does not at least on its face treat me
as an equal. I urge others, male or female, black or white, gay, bi, or
straight, differently abled, whatever your situation, to do likewise; to leave
movements which judge on the basis of innate characteristics and to form
organizations which treat all people with mutual respect, as equal individuals.
Only when we ourselves refuse to make judgements about people based on innate
characteristics, will we be able to move toward the kind of society where we
can be ourselves, unchained from the prejudiced, stereotypical expectations
that others have of us.
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(1) I take feminism to mean any movement which
attempts to alter sex roles in the direction of sex-equality (however these
concepts are defined by the movement).
(2) ÒAndrogynistÓ has two common meanings: unisex ,
where everyone is a uniform mixture of ÒmasculineÓ and ÒfeminineÓ traits
(monoandrogyny), and freedom from socially enforced sex roles where
individuals, male and female freely determine for themselves how they want to
be, without being coerced to be ÒmasculineÓ if they are male, or ÒfeminineÓ if
they are female (polyandrogyny). Note that these two senses of the word are
diametrically opposed to each other; one enforces a unisex conformity, while
the other subverts it. In this article, the second sense of Òandrogyny,Ó as
gender freedom will be used. For more discussion, see the anthology ÒFemininity,Ó
Masculinity,Ó and ÒAndrogyny,Ó Mary Vetterling-Braggin, ed. (Littlefield,
Adams & Co, 1982).
(3) Ann SnitowÕs excellent ÒPages from a Gender
DiaryÓ, in the Spring 1989 issue of Dissent, covers many of the same divides:
between ÒminimizersÓ and ÒmaximizersÓ of sex-difference, between
ÒessentialistsÓ and Òsocial constructionists,Ó between Òcultural feministsÓ and
Òpost-structuralists.Ó She deals with the complex, problematic nature of the
category of ÒwomanÓ for feminist theory. Despite all of its subtle insights and
self-awareness, she in effect tacitly assumes a gynocentric framework by
assuming her audience to be entirely female. Men are still Other, outside the
community of feminist discourse. For many years bell hooks has very
thoughtfully grappled with the difficult questions of racial and sexual
identity (see especially her recent Talking Back: thinking feminist, thinking black
(South End Press, Boston, 1989): ÒTo challenge identity politics we must offer
strategies of politicization that enlarge our conception of who we are , that
intensify our sense of intersubjectivity, our relation to a collective reality.
We do this by reemphasizing how history, political science, psychoanalysis, and
diverse ways of knowing can be used to inform our ideas of self and identity.
Politicization of the self can have as its starting point in an exploration of
the personal wherein what first is revolutionized is the way we think about the
self....Such a perspective, while it would insist on the self as a site for
politicization, would equally insist that simply describing oneÕs experience of
exploitation or oppression is not to become politicized. It is not sufficient
to know the personal but to know - to speak it in a different wayÓ (p.
107).
(4) Sadly, most contemporary anarcha-feminists seem
to subscribe to this view, despite contrary arguments by outspoken anarchist
advocates of sex-equality: Emma Goldman, Voltairine de Cleyre, Angela and Ezra
Heywood, Stephen Pearl Andrews, and Victoria Woodhull. See Freedom, Feminism, and the State, Wendy
McElroy, ed., (Cato Institute, 1982). Unfortunately, neither individualist
feminism nor anarcha-feminism are rarely ever mentioned on the typical feminist
political map, which includes liberal feminism, socialist feminism, marxist
feminism, radical feminism, cultural feminism, post-modern feminism,
post-structural feminism, Freudian feminism, French feminism, existentialist
feminism and spiritual feminism.
(5) The gynocentric worldview owes its internal
logical structure to hegelian nationalism by way of orthodox marxism. Instead
of a totalizing framework subordinating all issues to struggles between
economic classes, here all other issues are dominated by struggles between
gender classes. Men as a class dominate women as a class, much as capitalists
dominate proletarians in orthodox marxism. Patriarchy is the conspiracy of male
power which makes such oppression possible.
(6) Many French feminists have used the Òpolitics
of the bodyÓ to implement covertly essentialist feminist programs. For example,
Luce Irigaray poetically argues in her essay ÒWhen our lips speak togetherÓ in This Sex Which is
Not One (Cornell University Press, 1985) that women are metaphysically
distinct from men because of anatomical differences between penises and
vaginas. Much of the French feminist discourse, which mixes psychoanalysis and
literary criticism, seems to be deliberately written to obfuscate and mystify.
On this side of the Atlantic, feminists such as Andrea Dworkin have long based
their metaphysics of difference on anatomical asymmetries of heterosexual
intercourse.
(7) as in currently popular practices of goddess
worship.
(8) See Margareta HalbergÕs sensible discussion,
ÒFeminist Epistemology: An Impossible Project?Ó in Radical Philosophy #53, Autumn, 1989.
ÒPhallogocentrismÓ also comes up in whether there can be a distinctly Òfeminist
science,Ó or whether women philosophers, mathematicians, and scientists somehow
think differently from their male counterparts.
(9) Carol GilliganÕs In A Different Voice, (Harvard
University Press, 1982) for example, provocatively argues that boys and girls
are socialized in radically different ways, resulting in fundamentally
different ways of experiencing and acting in the world. She does not, however,
look at the overlaps between the two groups, nor does she attempt to explain
how some girls come to have more traditionally masculine qualities or how some
boys come to have traditionally feminine ones. Ò Looking more closely at
GilliganÕs research it is hard not to see there a methodology designed to
exaggerate difference and to disregard similarity between women and men.Ó Lynne
Segal, Is the
Future Female? Troubled Thoughts on Contemporary Feminism (Peter Bedrick
Books, New York, 1987, p.147).
Typically in academic-feminist writing the
psychosocial categories of ÒgenderÓ (ÒmasculineÓ/ÓfeminineÓ) are distinguished
from the biological categories of sex (ÒmaleÓ/ÓfemaleÓ), but in practice
feminist activists collapse the gender categories into the biological ones. As
far as I know there are no political organizations explicitly for ÒfeminineÓ
people (men and women) or ÒmasculineÓ people (men and women), nor any which
exclude on the basis of ÒgenderÓ alone.
(10) There are a few discussion groups for men in
these circles, but even these are usually open to interested women. There seem
to be virtually no men-only public political events.
(11) It is hard to think of a conflict in the world
which was not aided and abetted, if not created, by these distinctions,
although obviously female nationalism cannot by any stretch of the imagination
be shackled with responsibility for the death and destruction caused by its
ideological cousins.
(12) E.g., Israeli eviction of the Palestinians is
excused because of the horrendous experience of the Holocaust; Palestinian
terrorist reprisals are excused because of the extreme brutality of Israeli
occupation/repression. Contrary to popular belief, oppression does not
necessarily sensitize one to the pain of others; victims of previous oppression
can be just as brutal and insensitive to others as anyone else.
(13) Often in large mixed-sex groups, there is a
call for separate womenÕs discussion groups, usually rationalized by arguing
that men will inevitably dominate the discussion if allowed to participate. By
excluding men, women will feel safe and more able to speak in a group, and the
problem of differential participation is thereby solved. What reportedly
happens, however, is that in many of these women-only groups typically a few
women dominate the discussion. The definition of the problem in terms of women
vs. men has masked the problem of outspoken vs. reticent people. In mixed groups
there are always some men and women who speak quite a bit and other men and
women who remain silent. The solution is not to make the division along
sex-lines, but along those of who has spoken and who has not. Those who have
not spoken (whether men or women) should get absolute priority.
(14) Some writers (perhaps over-optimistically)
feel we are already proceeding well along the path. to androgyny and that the
old gender-based identities are fast fading away. See Elisabeth BadinterÕs The Unopposite
Sex: The End of the Gender Battle (Harper & Row, 1989).
(15) Because of the successes of the feminist
movement thus far, some previously sex-differentiated roles have been
integrated. There are now more female doctors, lawyers, architects, bus
drivers, carpenters, auto mechanics, and more male nurses, househusbands,
secretaries, elementary school teachers and daycare workers. Obviously, we have
a long way to go before the proportions are even close to equal.
(16) Strong sex-based identities, however, make it
exceedingly difficult to even imagine this kind of political movement. For such
a movement to get off the ground, there must be at least some initial
recognition of similar desires, some degree of mutual trust, and viable
strategies for personal change for both men and women.
(17) ÒThe feminist movement went a long way in
restoring to women a sense of boundaries and in affirming our right not to be
violated or be mere reflections of male desire. For some women, however, those
boundaries in turn became a prison. Though seemingly freed of the domination of
male desire, we are still no closer to our own. ÒCarol LeMasters ÒS/M and the
Violence of DesireÓ Trivia #15 Fall 1989, (P.O. Box 606, Amherst, MA 01059). Her essay
is brave, iconoclastic, personally revealing and heartfelt, delving into
questions of identity, power, and the feminist community.
(18) Ruth Hubbard and other feminist biologists
have written extensively on these issues. See Women, Feminism and Biology: The Feminist
Challenge, Lynda Burke, Methuen, New York, 1986. On the Necessity of Bestializing the Human
Female by Margot Sims (South End Press, 1982) satirizes
biologically-essentialist feminism. Biological essentialism was less prevalent
in the feminist movement before the dominance of separatist feminism in the
1970Õs and spiritualist feminism in the 1980Õs. EveÕs Secrets: A New Theory of Female
Sexuality by Josephine Lowndes Safely (Random House, 1987) provides a
biological argument based on anatomical homologies for the similarity of sexual
response in males and females.
(19) All systems which redistribute economic power
to individuals will tend to help poor people most; since women and racial
minorities comprise a disproportionate share of poor people, individual women
and members of minorities will tend to benefit most.
(20) Often the basis of exclusion has no good
rationale. For example most feminist self-help health groups which taught menstrual
extractions would probably allow lesbian, celibate and post-menopausal women to
learn the technique but completely exclude the male partners of those women who
might actually need it.
(21) This is also why abortion is not a choice
faced by women as a class, but a choice faced by individual women over the
control of their own bodies. The locus of decision-making here should be the
individual person, not the group. The absolute right of an individual to
control his/her own body has been relatively absent from pro-choice rhetoric:
it is often implied that women as a whole should collectively decide how, when,
where, and by whom reproductive decisions are made, but this is potentially
every bit as destructive to a particular womanÕs choice as having the decision
made by legislatures, Supreme Court Justices, or the FDA.
(22) The American individualist anarchist tradition
was based upon self-directing self-constructing individuals entering into
mutual, voluntary cooperative associations. The tradition was staunchly
anti-capitalist and feminist, respectful of individual rights but cooperative
in its outlook. Josiah Warren, Benjamin Tucker, Angela and Ezra Haywood,
Voltairine de Cleyre were some of its exponents. See the Freedom, Feminism and the State anthology,
cited above in note (4).
(23) On one hand feminist women want men to take
responsibility for and become active in struggles for reproductive freedom,
egalitarian child-rearing and social provision of child care, and more
equitable pay. On the other hand, many would rather not have men in their
organizations, even as equals, or have them evolve their own independent
perspectives on these matters. As a result many men come to see these issues in
gynocentric terms, as ÒwomenÕs issuesÓ for which they have no standing to think
about or comment on. No independent person, man or woman, will stay for long in
such a situation. Feminist organizations can be real political minefields even
for men having the best of intentions, and it is only those with the hardiest
political skins who survive for any length of time. IÕve thought about packing
it in too many times to count.
(24) Often more strident separatists can threaten
to leave a group if it becomes mixed, knowing that the group will decide to
exclude men entirely rather than risk losing a single woman member. Thus even
if a majority of the group would otherwise prefer a policy of non-exclusion,
the guilt of Òabandoning oneÕs own kindÓ and/or Òcaving in to menÕs desiresÓ
ultimately prevails.
(25) I know of a situation in which an
anarcha-feminist publication would not send a copy of their magazine to a
person who maintains an archive of current anarchist newspapers, magazines, and
leaflets, simply because he is male. The collective initially told him that
they would not sell the magazine to any man, because some woman might borrow a
copy from him, and that this might set up a power imbalance between them. As an
end result the archives has no copies of this journal, and this particular
point of view is not represented among the other anarcha-feminist materials.
(26) Of course, there are a good number of Òguilty
male feministsÓ around who in one form or another gladly accept the separatist
essentialist characterizations of them. See the articles by Stephen Heath, for example,
in the troubled Men
in Feminism anthology, Alice Jardine & Paul Smith, eds. (Methuen, New
York, 1987). Many but not all of the essays in For Men Against Sexism, Jon Snodgrass, ed.
(Times Change Press, Albion, CA 95410) are dripping with guilt over their
authorsÕ sex, race, class, and sexual preference. A refreshing constructive
alternative to these self-flagellations are three essays included under the
title of Off
Their Backs ...and on our own two feet (New Society Publishers, 4722
Baltimore Ave. Philadelphia, PA 19143, 1983)
(27) Many of those who have been on the margins of
feminism, particularly those who have black and/or S/M identities (e.g. bell
hooks, Carol LeMasters, cited above), recognize the problem of the construction
of unified feminist norms, and are properly critical of the ways in which such
norms function to exclude them. Rarely, however, is this recognition extended
to the ways in which their own frameworks exclude other groups.
(28) Last year I attended a candle-light memorial
vigil for two women who were murdered while vacationing in the Caribbean. A
separatist who identified herself as a black lesbian noted that the murderer
was probably a black man and rightly cautioned the crowd about not making
racial generalizations about black men, but then began making invidious
generalizations about men in general. Another separatist contemptuously railed
at middle class white men, implying that all men were violent, that all Òmale
violenceÓ was directed against women and children, and indirectly that men have
no place in her community. Depressingly, most people there seemed completely
blind to these incongruities: racism is okay as long as itÕs directed at
whites, classism is okay as long as its not directed at the working class;
sexism is okay as long as itÕs directed at men.
Bonne Bell ShouldnÕt Be Exclusive Race
Jennifer Jordan
As a woman and a runner, I must raise objection to
the exclusionary rules governing the Bonne Bell road race.
As I ran my daily river run the day preceding the
race, an obviously trained male runner passed me with a cheerful and open,
ÒGood luck tomorrow!Ó I felt anger for those that would exclude him from a fun
holiday run by reason only of his sex. The reverse discrimination shocks me. Ò
Can you imagine a race for Òwhites onlyÓ
ÒChristians onlyÓ ÒAmericans only?Ó Ridiculous that women, bound by some
convenient tradition, find themselves in the position of social arbiters and
separatists. Ò
ÒSorry, but thatÕs just the way it is.Ó Seems that
IÕve heard those words before, in Mobile and South Boston and Johannesburg.
Funny when the power is in the other hands, sexism
is the rule rather than the exception to be fought and eradicated. If equality
is ever to be realized in this country, hadnÕt we better define our principles
with a bit more clarity? Ò
From The Boston Globe, Oct. 21, 1983.
Individualists Against Sexism
Joe Peacott
I think that changing ALFÕs name, as discussed by
Joan Kennedy Taylor in ALF News #31 is a very good idea. However, the word I find most
problematic in the current name is feminist, not libertarian. Both the current
and historical politics and activity of most people who label themselves
feminists are at odds with the goal of a free, non-statist, and non- sexist
society that I, and I assume most in ALF, pursue.
Feminism has a history of allying itself with
anti-sex and pro-censorship forces, anti-alcohol campaigns, and statist
solutions to the problems created by sexism. On the other hand, there is a long
tradition of people fighting sexism, especially in the U.S., who have not
adopted the name or ideology of feminism, and, in fact have stood in opposition
to the conservatism of feminism. People such as the sex radicals, both men and
women, of the latter half of the last century, Emma Goldman, and Voltairine
DeCleyre all waged fights against sexism, censorship, and authority in general,
and none considered themselves feminists (although modern feminist historians
falsely claim them as part of feminist history, equating anti-sexism with
feminism). Anti-sexism is one thing; feminism (but certainly not all
self-described feminists) is something quite different.
Feminism, as an ideology can not be anything but
sexist. Even the word itself, meaning, basically, womanism, is exclusive of
men, which certainly is not anti-sexist. At the recent anarchist con/fest in
San Francisco, anarchist-feminists and their supporters organized exclusivist
workshops, and even two days of women-only and men-only meetings and
activities. Such separatism did nothing but further the distance between many
of the women and men in the anarchist movement and inhibited man-woman
dialogue, which is crucial to fighting sexism. Within the mixed workshops there
was continuous tension between many women and men, with all sorts of
disagreements in either viewpoint or style frequently reduced simply to
manifestations of sexism in the eyes of the feminists. Certainly, there is a
problem with sexism in the anarchist and libertarian movements, as elsewhere in
life, but separatism and feminism do nothing to break down the barriers.
Excluding and attacking people simply on the basis of their sex is sexist,
whoever is doing the excluding.
Individualism as a philosophical system is
necessarily anti-sexist, since it views persons as individuals, not as members
of various groups based on sex, color, class, etc. Individualists fight against
legal restrictions on abortion because we feel all people should be free to
control their bodies, just as we fight against the draft for the same reason.
Abortion is no more a feminist issue, than is (all-male) draft registration.
Both are individualist issues: the state trying to run the lives of people who
should be left alone. And just as many women have been involved in anti-draft
work, many men are fighting to preserve the freedom to abort.
Fighting sexism is important, and I support ALF,
even though I am not a feminist, because I feel it makes a contribution to this
fight. But I think ALF should reject the word feminist and leave it to the
statists who so frequently use it to describe themselves. Something like
Individualists Against Sexism would be a more fitting name for a group of
individualist anarchists and libertarians committed to the fight against sexism.
Lesbian/Gay Liberation or Individual Freedom?
Joe Peacott
In June, 1969, for the first time, customers at the
Stonewall Inn, a gay bar in New York, fought back against the police when they
tried to raid the bar. The modern gay/lesbian liberation movement generally
considers this event the birth of their movement. But, unfortunately, this
movement really has little in common with the spirit of the Stonewall revolt.
Instead of self-defense against the attacks of the state and reliance on their
own strength, the strategy of the lesbian/gay movement now consists of reliance
on the stateÕs laws and money, and support for the electoral and legislative
process.
Gay/lesbian civil rights legislation and funding
for AIDS research are the current focus of the lesbian/gay movement. They lobby
for passage of laws to prohibit discrimination in housing, jobs, etc., based on
sexual tastes, and go begging to the feds for money to help find a cure for
AIDS. Lesbian/gay political alliances and caucuses endorse various politicians
running for office and have succeeded in pressuring a number of big city mayors
to appoint gay/lesbian liaisons. They talk about the gay/lesbian ÒcommunityÓ as
if we were a neatly definable political and social group, to be used to reward
or punish politicians and government officials with our vote.
There are several other problems with this
approach, the most important and fundamental of which is the myth of a
lesbian/gay ÒcommunityÓ. The gay/lesbian liberation movement promotes the idea
that gay men and lesbians have common interests and goals different from those
of straight people, and therefore should work together as a group. But I have
no more in common with most lesbians and gay men than I do with most straight
men and women. Although most gay men and lesbians feel some effects of
anti-homosexual bias, the best way to fight this is not by isolating ourselves
as a Òcommunity,Ó but by reaching out to other victims of conventional society
and allying with them in an attempt to change the bigoted world in which we
live. I am not interested in gay/lesbian liberation. I am interested in
individual liberation. Respect for and acceptance of individual differences,
including sexual tastes, lays the basis for a society of equal freedom for all
of us.
The gay/lesbian ÒcommunityÓ can be just as
discriminatory as any other community or group. Lesbians who engage in S/M sex
have been denied meeting space at the Cambridge WomenÕs Center because of their
non-traditional sex tastes. Black men are frequently ÒcardedÓ and denied
admission to gay menÕs bars. And Harry Britt, the gay San Francisco supervisor,
is supporting the recent ban on sex at the gay menÕs bath houses in San
Francisco. This is a ÒcommunityÓ of which I want no part.
I am not interested in having gay men and lesbians
trying to run my life instead of straight people. Neither community has any
interest in individual freedom. This is a problem common to all movements which
are based on the interests of specific groups, such as lesbian/gay liberation,
feminism, or national movements. The interests of the group inevitably
supersede the interests of the individual, resulting only in new forms of
oppression.
Such a movement logically throws in its lot with
the electoral system. Since they really are not interested in fundamental
change, but only in opening up the system to more gay men and lesbians, civil
rights legislation is a consistent route for them to follow. But reliance on
the state will serve only the interests of the leaders of this movement. Passing
laws merely increases the power of the state, including lesbian and gay
politicians, to interfere with the rest of us. Civil rights laws donÕt make it
easier to come out to friends and co-workers. They only make it easier for
aspiring gay and lesbian politicians to find work. Lesbian/gay marches, for all
their problems have certainly helped change other peopleÕs view of us more than
any legislation will.
The most recent and well publicized case of this
reliance on government is the struggle for state funding of AIDS research.
Thousands of lesbians and gay men are clamoring for money from the federal
government to help find a cure for AIDS. This is a turn away from the
independent gay-oriented clinics which have been started during the last ten
years, and toward alliance with the same medical-industrial-government complex
that conducted the Tuskegee syphilis ÒexperimentsÓ on unknowing black men, and
encourages the sterilization of poor women. Although a cure for AIDS will
require lots of money and hard research, seeking help from the state will lead
to more government control of health care and less individual initiative and
control. The most positive aspect of the AIDS crisis, the formation of
self-help and support groups for AIDS patients by the patients themselves,
other gay men and lesbians, and especially by gay and lesbian health care
workers, is being de-emphasized more and more by gay/lesbian leaders in favor
of the fight for governmental funding.
ItÕs a sad comment on the lesbian/gay liberation movement
that the only example of old-fashioned resistance in recent years has been the
ÒWhite NightÓ riot in San Francisco. Although it was inspiring to see burning
police cars and smashed city hall windows, it was disappointing to realize that
the issue that brought people out was the fact that a murderer did not get a
life sentence or the death penalty. Killing or locking up Dan White forever
will not protect or liberate gay men and lesbians. Only self-defense, by any
means necessary, will protect us from those who hate us. Prison and the death
penalty are horrors, whatever crimes their victims have committed or been
convicted of committing. Supporting them for anyone betrays the movementÕs
supposed interest in personal freedom.
Gay men and lesbians interested in freedom need to
avoid the trap of gay/lesbian liberation. While rejecting the lesbian/gay
Òcommunity,Ó we need to be open and assertive about our sexuality and defend
our freedom to live as we please. We can do this in the context of a broader struggle
for the freedom of all individuals to live as they like, free of the
constraints of any authority or Òcommunity,Ó as long as they donÕt invade the
equal freedom of others.
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The real mistake here, Polly, is imagining that there
is a stark division in the human species between gay and not gay. ItÕs
nonsense; there is the world of sexual behaviors, and individuals decide,
moment-to-moment, what they are going to do and with whom....ÓGayÓ is a
psychological and Òsociological abstraction, a useful notion for certain kinds
of discussions, but a fiction when you come right down to the level of people
and what they choose to do. The idea has caused immense harm; how many people
have wasted time agonizing over ÒwhatÓ they are...am I gay if I feel this way
sometimes?...am I really bi, since I was just attracted to a woman?... if IÕm
gay does that mean that I have to act a certain way now? These questions are an
absurd and tragic waste of time.... Ò
Excerpted from ÒPolly Sexual,Ó in
Possessed,
Autumn 1988.
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There Is No ÔNaturalÕ Human Sexuality
Ruth Hubbard
The circumstances that arouse our sexual feelings
and the ways in which we express them are structured by the society in which we
live, and have changed over time. There is no ÒnaturalÓ human sexuality.
Historically in the West, sexuality has been linked with reproduction. This
arises out of the Christian equation of sexuality with sin that must be
redeemed through reproduction. It results in the invalidation of all forms of sexual
expression and enjoyment other than heterosexuality. To fulfill the Christian
mandate, sexuality always should be intended for reproduction. Actually, in our
day, just plain heterosexuality will do, irrespective of reproductive
consequences.
This sets up a major contradiction in the way we
initiate children to sexuality and reproduction. We teach them that sex and
sexuality are about having babies and warn them that they must not explore sex
until they are old enough to be mummies and daddies. Then, when they reach
adolescence and the entire culture pressures them into sexual activity (whether
they want it or not), the more ÒenlightenedÓ among us teach them how to be
sexually (meaning heterosexually) active without becoming mummies and daddies.
Surprise: it doesnÕt work very well. Teenagers do not act ÒresponsiblyÓ - teenage
pregnancy and abortion are on the rise. Somewhere, we forget that we have been
teaching lies: sexuality and reproduction are not linked in Òadvanced,Ó
ÒdevelopedÓ societies. Youngsters are expected to be heterosexually active from
there teens on, but to put off having children until they are economically
independent and married, and even then to have only two or, at most, three
children.
Other contradictions: this society accepts, on the
whole, FreudÕs assumption that children are sexual from birth and that in
childhood society channels that polymorphously perverse sexuality into socially
acceptable forms. Yet we expect our children to be asexual. Furthermore, more
than most traditional societies, we raise boys and girls together, while we
insist that they must not explore their own sexuality, and especially not each
others.
What if we acknowledged the actual separation of
sexuality from reproduction and encouraged our children to express themselves
sexually, if they were so inclined? This would mean that they could explore
their own bodies as well as those of friends of the same or the other sex, when
they felt like it. It would also mean that they would have some sense of their
own and other peopleÕs sexual needs, and would know how to talk out these needs
with friends and sexual partners before reproduction became an issue for them.
Presumably, without the embarrassment of unexplored and unacknowledged sexual
needs, contraceptive needs would be much easier to acknowledge and deal with as
they arise. So, of course, would same-sex love relationships.
As Steve Jackson has pointed out in Childhood and
Sexuality this would be especially advantageous for girls, though it would
help children and adolescents of both sexes. Boys, in the ordinary course of
sexual exploration, discover their penis as an organ of pleasure, and it is
also the organ they are taught about when they learn about reproduction.
Reproduction and pleasure therefore are linked. Girls exploring themselves find
their clitoris, but when they learn about reproduction, the clitoris often goes
unacknowledged, and they are taught that their vagina is the organ important
for sex and reproduction. According to the American Heritage Dictionary, the vagina is
Òthe passage leading from the external genital orifice [whatÕs an orifice,
Mummy?] to the uterus in mammals [whatÕs a mammal, Mummy?]; from Latin vagina,
sheath [you mean I am a sheath for a penis or a baby, Mummy?].Ó Therefore, for
boys, there is an obvious link between reproduction and their own pleasurable,
erotic explorations; for most girls, there isnÕt.
It should not surprise us that a male-dominated
society has constructed sexuality in ways that serve menÕs sexual needs more
than womenÕs. The interesting thing is that when Shere Hite came out with her
first Report,
which said that sexuality, as we have constructed it, doesnÕt serve women, many
women came forward to acclaim her and agree. When she later wrote, in her Report on Male Sexuality,
that it didnÕt do so well by men, either, she was dismissed as a charlatan. The
analysis I have just described comes to the same conclusions: our construction
of sexuality doesnÕt do well by women or men. But itÕs harder on women.
Granted that sexuality is socially constructed,
each of us writes her or his own script out of the sum total of our individual
experiences. None of this is inborn or biologically given. It is constructed
out of our diverse life situations, limited by what we are taught and/or
imagine as permissible, correct behavior. There is no Òfemale sexual
experience, no Òmale sexual experience,Ó no unique heterosexual, lesbian or gay
experience. There are instead the different experiences of different people,
which we lump according to socially significant categories. Whenever I hear a
generalization about the sexual experience of some particular group, exceptions
immediately come to mind -- except that I refuse to call them exceptions; they
are part of the total reality. Of course, some similarities are generated out
of the similar social circumstances in which members of groups find themselves,
but we tend to exaggerate what exists when we go looking for in-group
similarities, or for differences between groups.
This line of thinking is illustrated by the
heterosexual/homosexual dichotomy, which originated in typologies that were in
vogue in late nineteenth century biology, especially in human biology.
Behaviors were no longer merely attributes of particular persons; they defined
people. A person who had sexual relations with a person of the same sex became
a certain kind of person, a ÒhomosexualÕ; a person who had sexual relations
with people of the other sex, a different kind, a Òheterosexual.Ó This way of
classifying people erased the hitherto accepted fact that many people donÕt do
exclusively one or the other. It created the stereotype which was then
popularized by the sex reformers, such as Havelock Ellis, who biologized the
supposed difference. ÒThe homosexualÓ became a person who is different by
nature and therefore should not be held responsible for her or his so-called
deviance. This served the purposes of the reformers (though the laws were slow
to change), but it turned same-sex love into a medical problem to be treated by
doctors, rather than punished by judges--an improvement, perhaps, but not
acceptance or liberation.
This brings us to Freud, who was unusual for his
time (and still, to some extent, for ours) in insisting that sexual development
is problematic for everyone and that it is scientifically as valid to ask how a
child comes to love people of the other sex as of her or his own. However, he
plotted a course of development that involved his newly invented Oedipus
complex and castration anxiety to explain how men come to form affective
attachments to women and women to men. Loving people of oneÕs own sex continued
to be seen as pathological.
Feminist revisioning of Freud by Nancy Chodorow and
Dorothy Dinnerstein interprets the course of affective development by putting
at the center the childÕs relationship to the mother rather than to the father.
However, since girlsÕ first intense, affective experience is with a person of
the same sex, whereas for boys it is with a member of the other sex, their
description continues to posit a crucial difference between the ways in which
girls and boys develop their identities and erotic relationships to members of
the other sex. Whereas Freud delineated a course that he believed more clear
and direct for boys, but more fuzzy and problematic for girls, ChodorowÕs
formulation suggests that male development is the more problematic. Girls grow
up identifying with their primary care-giver, a woman, and they assume that
they will become like her. Boys, on the other hand, become men by insisting on
being unlike the person who cares for them, whom they know best, who is their
first love. And since boys (like girls) usually are not nearly so familiar with
a man as they are with the mother (or other primary caretaker, who also usually
is a woman), this necessity to differentiate themselves in kind from the
primary caretaker engenders a fragility into the male ego that women need not
deal with. Surprisingly, neither Chodorow nor Dinnerstein addresses the
question of why, in that case, women later form affective ties with men rather
than transferring their primary bond from the mother (or other female
caretaker) to other women. Their model readily lends itself to the idea that to
women and men, love for women comes easily, while love for men is problematic.
But they do not explore these implications.
In my own theorizing I donÕt either, because I am
no more comfortable with models that posit a psychological determinism than I
am with biodeterminist ones. I find ChodorowÕs and DinnersteinÕs analyses more
interesting than FreudÕs, but no more convincing. Much more realistic to me are
the diversity, change, and flexibility in sexuality reported by Kinsey, who
emphasized that most people can love people of either sex and that the choices
change over time and social circumstances. I do not give much credence to
retrospective accounts by some lesbians and gay men who believe that they were
born Òdifferent,Ó homosexual. In my teaching, I have sometimes asked students
to reflect--out loud, if they wish,--about the development of their own early
loves and attachments. And, usually, women who think of themselves as
heterosexual in that their sexual relationships, as adults, are with men recall
strong erotic ties to one or more women or girls during their childhood and
adolescence. My point is that if these women were involved in loving
relationships with women, they might look to these early loves as ÒproofÓ that
they had always been lesbians, while if they relate sexually to men, they may
be tempted to devalue them and call them childhood crushes.
I believe that people fall in love with
individuals, not with a sex. Even within one sex, most of us prefer certain
ÒtypesÓ; usually not any man or woman will do. It is an interesting question
what shapes those preferences. But no one has suggested that something innate
makes us light up in the presence of certain men or women. We would think it
absurd to look at hormone levels or any other biological phenomenon as the
cause for ÒtypeÓ preference within a sex. In fact, scientists rarely bother to
ask what in our psychosocial experience shapes such tastes and preferences. We
assume it must have something to do with parents or other early experiences,
but donÕt probe deeply unless our preferences involve the ÒwrongÓ sex. Then,
suddenly, we try to pinpoint specific causes from out of the maze of
biological, psychological, and social experiences that make us the people we
are at a given time in our lives. Because of our recent history and political
experiences, feminists have an easier time accepting this line of reasoning
than many other people do. Many women who have thought of themselves as
Òheterosexual,Ó and who may have married and had children, when we have had the
opportunity to rethink, refeel, and restructure our lives have fallen in love
with women, sometimes much to our own surprise.
The society in which we live channels, guides, and
limits our imagination in sexual as well as other matters. Why some of us give
ourselves permission to love people of our sex whereas others donÕt is an
interesting question, but I donÕt think it will be answered by checking our
hormone levels or trying to unearth our earliest affectional ties. As more
women begin to speak more freely about our sexual experiences, we are learning
more about how women come to re-examine, re-evaluate, change. Lately,
increasing numbers of women have begun to allow ourselves to acknowledge
ÒbisexualityÓ - loving women and men, in succession or simultaneously. I
believe that most of us will end up acknowledging that we love certain people
or, perhaps, certain kinds of people, and that gender need not be a significant
category, though for some of us it may be.
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feminist.
Society For Cutting Up Men (SCUM). ÒA Scum-filled
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for dropping libertarian from the groupÕs name, but retaining feminist.
Taylor, Tobe. ÒWhat If ItÕs a Boy?Ó Sojourner,
Dec. 1988. Argues in favor of aborting male fetuses because of their sex,
contending men are, by nature, not Òall right.Ó
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?Ó Bay Windows,
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of Bay Windows to even discuss the issue.
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